Monday, 30 May 2016

First Backpacking...

Big weekend!  First real backpacking trip with the boys.  My and Lesley’s packs have laid wait for this for nearly 10 years.  Pulling them out, we realized the last time we used them was in CO, when Alder was but a pinto bean-sized newbie, unbeknownst to us.  We have long looked forward to getting the boys in the woods deep.  We have considered car camping as prep.  But this was much more. 

Laurel Fork area, George Washington National Forest, among the VA and WV border.  We arrived on the end of a downpour and hiked in till dusk, to find a nice open site on Vance Run.  Set up, cooked, ate, laid down to the sound of a rushing Vance Run.  The hike in included a shoe-changing icy-cool (albeit end-May) stream crossing which brought some tears, but we made it.  However the next day, a much more demanding (i.e. deep and wide) stream crossing brought us to our wall.  Our six mile loop became a 3-ish mile out-and-back.   I have to admit, barefoot through cold water brings tears to me as well.

NONETHELESS!!  It was beautiful. A taste of something we wanted our boys to experience early.  A taste of reminder for Lesley and me, of something we loved to do together in our early days.  We are so happy that, though with challenges, this first time was a fun, dry, safe and a rewarding go at it.

We took it easy: one over night in the backcountry.  And, we didn’t see another person, we hung food in tree from bears, we minimized to get in, we filtered water from stream, and we took our time and stopped for any and everything we needed and wanted to take in.  The trail was rather unkempt, so we did some cutting along the way.  It was work.  It was fun.  The boys were troopers.  Moments.  Memories.

So taking it easy meant driving  a little more and spending the next two nights in an off-grid lodge.  Lesley and I, via connections, have access to this Nature Conservancy cabin.  This cabin served as the home base for a hunter/trapper in the 1920s who supplied the game for the Homestead Resort in Hot Springs, Virginia.  We stayed there for two days and two nights with rare reference to a clock, taking walks, reading, drawing, throwing football and Frisbee, cooking, eating, fire, playing games, many miles down a high-clearance forest road.  We slept on the porch under a tin roof and got enough rain to get the most of that.   We heard all the night sounds, all night.  And all the early Spring sounds all day. 


We are so grateful for these few days to press the reset button – relatively hard.  Time together with little else.  We believe that, in this time of fast-paced do do do, and hyper communication, it is so important to remind ourselves of the reference point of what we are all rooted in: simple wildness and quiet.  In just three days we felt a re-calibration in all of us, which was a refreshing thing to notice and take in.


















































Thursday, 26 May 2016

Nine years old!!

Well, we have a nine year old. Just like that. Someone pointed out to me a couple weeks ago that at age nine we are at the halfway point (theoretically) of a child's life at home. NOT excited to think this way. 

He got up so so too early on a school day. By the end he was totally exhausted.  He builds up SO much for such things that he is obviously saddened as their end approaches. But he said it was the best bday ever. 
Lesley and I went and ate lunch with each of them that day, working from home. 
Yes they like some school lunches and as crazy busy and tired as we are these days, we welcome the chances to NOT make lunches in the morning. 

Ate at favorite restaurant that night. I really like this little series of pics of both boys at restaurant. 




On the following Friday we had a bunch of friends over, play bball at school and had pizza and ice cream. 


Crazy but fun fun times.  And I am so happy and thankful to be doing this with Lesley.